Yes, it’s Valentines day again, so that means that lot’s of people are celebrating no longer being single. Of course, some may not be as enthusiastic about it, that’s understandable. I’m still single as always. But, I promise I’m not bitter, though it’s really fun to be. See, one can use bitterness as an excuse to blame one’s loneliness on others. The problem? It’s not healthy and not very attractive to women. They don’t see a bitter guy and think, “Wow he’s hot.” Unless, he actually is hot, but the bitterness thing kinda spoils the hotness. Seriously people, bitter is a bummer for everyone else.
So, I guess I’m saying, don’t be bitter. Love sucks, I get it, but that’s only because it didn’t work out. I’m willing to bet that if it DOES work out someday, you won’t be thinking how terrible love has treated you. It’s human nature to focus on what’s wrong. We do it in politics especially. Focusing on the negative is not productive. While its good to know when something isn’t working, it’s better not to dwell on it. Instead, fix what’s not working!
There, I just saved the world! Ok, so what I am saying should be common sense, but I think it’s important to remind everyone that live is like an adventure. It’s not always fun and exciting. Sometimes it’s rough, tough, and not fun at all. Emotional pain is part of it too. But, these experiences are positive in the long run, because they help us grow and become a better person. I know that sometimes it may seem hopeless. You may feel like you will never find that right person. But, you can’t ever know for sure, you can’t know what’s going to happen. All you can do is try to be the best that you can be.
Do I wish I had someone special to spend this holiday with? Sure, but I’d also like to be rich, have a great job, and save the world. I’d also like to look like an athlete over night, but that ain’t gonna happen! I’m happy with who I am and I wouldn’t mind spending the rest of my life with me. I’m going to have fun and if a terribly attractive female model/actor/bodacious babe happens to want to join me in life then that’s fine by me, but I’m not going to hold my breath! 😉
So, happy valentines day to all you singles out there! Hope you are having fun too! And for all you couples are there, hope you are having fun too!